Tuesday, June 07, 2011
Breakin the rules- Possession Blog hop
Monday, June 06, 2011
My response to critics of YA
This is my response to the Wall Street Journal article here.
My first moment of finding a character like me in a book came long before the YA years. Dear Mr. Henshaw by Beverly Cleary in second grade to be exact.
My second grade teacher assigned this book to me when our class was reading Beverly Cleary. I didn’t want to read this book because 1. It had a boy on the cover. 2. I wanted to read a Ramona book.
But on the pages of this book I found what I needed. Leigh Botts and I had a lot of the same problem. Divorce. Wondering when we’d see Dad, being mad when Dad forgot to send the child support check. Reading about Leigh gave me the roadmap I needed to navigate my own parent’s divorce.
Other books would provide valuable tools for dealing with my parent’s divorce like the Divorce Express by Paula Danzinger.
In my Catholic grade school class of 25 kids I can pretty safely tell you that none of the other kids had parents who were getting divorced. Books helped me immensely. I'm not sure what my life would have been without those books.
Even if my teen years seem to lack the “darkness” that the WSJ article talks about it doesn’t mean I didn’t encounter these things. I’m one of the people Laurie Halse Anderson talks about in her post. I was the kid who encountered these kids.
The books I read gave me the tools to be a good friend because I knew kids who were dealing with bigger things than I was in my school, church and even in my own family.
I have to thank my mom for not censoring my reading. My mom used her parenting powers to make sure I wasn’t reading Cosmo before I was in college and that I didn’t get to see The Bodyguard until I was seventeen. She let me know which Danielle Steele novels I was allowed to read. But as far as the teen section in the library goes she trusted that what I was reading was safe and that if I encountered something I wasn’t ready for I wouldn’t read the book.
My mom wasn’t good with the tough subjects and she spent her teen years at boarding school so maybe it was easier to hope I’d find the answers in books. I think my mom knew that the books I was reading were fiction. I think she figured it was better to have me reading about some of these things than out there experiencing them first hand.
I think she'd seen me take good ideas from books- trying to start a babysitting club or starting a school newspaper with my friends in fifth grade so we could be like Elizabeth Wakefield or being kind to spiders. But I think she knew I wasn't going to start smoking or raid the liquor cabinet because I'd read about it in a book.
See the thing is things like smoking, drinking, drugs, cutting or eating disorders don't always turn out so great for the characters in teen fiction. The characters have to journey back from those dark places. Most kids don't finish a book about these subjects and think they should try that for themselves. Reading about it is enough. But reading about it can give insight when they have a friend or family member go through something similar.
I think reading and writing gave me my voice. I read and wrote a lot. I was pretty confident in my voice by the time I entered my teen years. I spent my high school years on the debate team and school newspaper. I was no stranger to using my voice for something I believed in.
I saw friends and even family members deal with tough issues straight out of teen fiction. I spent a lot of time wondering What kept me safe? What made set me apart? Why them and not me? A few years ago I realized the answer was my voice. Sometimes #YASaves by giving kids the voice to keep themselves safe in the world in the first place.
Saturday, June 04, 2011
Summer Deals
Friday, June 03, 2011
Excuses, excuses

Wednesday, June 01, 2011
Summer reading
Tuesday, May 31, 2011
Lessons from Draft 3
Friday, May 27, 2011
Friday Fives- Procrastination Nation

Tuesday, May 24, 2011
Happy Birthday Bob Dylan
Monday, May 23, 2011
Twisters
Friday, May 20, 2011
Friday Fives- The five things I can't live without.

Thursday, May 19, 2011
reading pays off
Tuesday, May 17, 2011
What's in a name?
Monday, May 16, 2011
swimming with dolphins and catching pelicans

Tuesday, May 10, 2011
Vacation
Friday, May 06, 2011
Announcement
Wednesday, May 04, 2011
What I'm Reading- Jenna and Jonah's Fauxmance
Tuesday, May 03, 2011
May and Tonys
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Z is for Zumba
Friday, April 29, 2011
Y is Yoga
Thursday, April 28, 2011
X is for Xanadu
Wednesday, April 27, 2011
W is for Wild Rumpus
W is for Wild Rumpus.
Tuesday, April 26, 2011
V is for Veronica Mars
Monday, April 25, 2011
U is for Unicorns
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Happy Easter
T is for Thanks, Ties and Theater
Friday, April 22, 2011
S is for Story
Thursday, April 21, 2011
R is for Revision
Wednesday, April 20, 2011
Q is for Questions
Tuesday, April 19, 2011
P is for Plot, photos and peeps
Monday, April 18, 2011
O is for One word, One page
Saturday, April 16, 2011
N is for Nightwalker
Friday, April 15, 2011
M is for Minneapolis
Thursday, April 14, 2011
L is for Library
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
K is for Kindle
Tuesday, April 12, 2011
J is for Joy
Monday, April 11, 2011
I is for If
Saturday, April 09, 2011
H is for Harry Potter
Friday, April 08, 2011
G is for Great Beginnings
Thursday, April 07, 2011
F is for Flaw
Wednesday, April 06, 2011
E is for Exercise
Tuesday, April 05, 2011
D is for Dedication
Monday, April 04, 2011
C is for Coffee Shop
Saturday, April 02, 2011
B is for Bikes and Bacon
Sneaker to pedal
Sun shining down on my face
Traveling by bikeTires on asphalt
Quiet, peaceful, serene, ride
Biking under stars
Vegetarians- the next section includes haiku devoted to bacon.
April brings other things besides the A-Z Challenge. This month is Bacon-fest at one of my neighborhood restaurants The Citizen Cafe. They put bacon in everything. They also have a bacon haiku contest.
Pairs well with chocolate
Good in seven layer bars
Bacon, gateway meat
If you love Peeps or even if you don't please vote for my diorama in the Pioneer Press Peep Diorama contest.